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Monday, November 16, 2015

Feed My Sheep

This week, Jayme taught a great lesson on the "Feed My Sheep" chapter in the Ezra Taft Benson manual. 

What does it mean to "feed my sheep"? Service. Following promptings to serve others around us is feeding the Lord's sheep. 

We then read the following story: (long, but worth it, I promise!)

“At a stake presidency meeting in Boise, Idaho, years ago, we were trying to select a president for the weakest and smallest elders quorum in the stake. Our clerk had brought a list of all the elders of that quorum, and on the list was the name of a man whom I had known for some years. He came from a strong Latter-day Saint family, but he wasn’t doing much in the Church.
“If the bishop made a call to do some work on the chapel, he would usually respond, and if the elders wanted to play softball, you would sometimes find him out playing with them. He did have leadership ability; he was president of a service club and was doing a fine job.
“I said to the stake president, ‘Would you authorize me to go out and meet this man and challenge him to square his life with the standards of the Church and take the leadership of his quorum? I know there is some hazard in it, but he has the ability.’
“The stake president said, ‘You go ahead, and the Lord bless you.’
“… I went to this man’s home. I’ll never forget the look on his face as he opened the door and saw a member of his stake presidency standing there. He hesitantly invited me in; his wife was preparing dinner, and I could smell the aroma of coffee coming from the kitchen. I asked him to have his wife join us, and when we were seated, I told him why I had come. ‘I’m not going to askyou for your answer today,’ I told him. ‘All I want you to do is to promise me that you will think about it, pray about it, think about it in terms of what it will mean to your family, and then I’ll be back to see you next week. If you decide not to accept, we’ll go on loving you,’ I added.
“The next Sunday, as soon as he opened the door I saw there had been a change. He was glad to see me, and he quickly invited me in and called to his wife to join us. He said, ‘Brother Benson, we have done as you said. We’ve thought about it and we’ve prayed about it, and we’ve decided to accept the call. If you brethren have that much confidence in me, I’m willing to square my life with the standards of the Church, a thing I should have done long ago.’
“He also said, ‘I haven’t had any coffee since you were here last week, and I’m not going to have any more.’
“He was set apart as elders quorum president, and attendance in his quorum began going up—and it kept going up. He went out, put his arm around the less-active elders, and brought them in. A few months later I moved from the stake.
“Years passed, and one day on Temple Square in Salt Lake City, a man came up to me, extended his hand, and said, ‘Brother Benson, you don’t remember me, do you?’
“‘Yes, I do,’ I said, ‘but I don’t remember your name.’
“He said, ‘Do you remember coming to the home of a delinquent elder in Boise seven years ago?’ And then, of course, it all came back to me. Then he said, ‘Brother Benson, I’ll never live long enough to thank you for coming to my home that Sunday afternoon. I am now a bishop. I used to think I was happy, but I didn’t know what real happiness was.’"

How can we fulfill the mission of "perfecting the saints" when saints have gone less active?

Love them & serve them. Sometimes, all a person needs is to feel that they are cared for and loved. 

Christ is the shepherd, and we should strive to be like Him. We should feed His sheep. 

Sunday, November 8, 2015

"Truly Good and Without Guile"

Today's lesson by Cassidy was focused on a talk by Elder Michael T. Ringwood called "Truly Good and Without Guile."

We started out by talking about what guile really means-- it's one of those words that comes up all the time in the scriptures, but do we know what it really means?

Guile (noun): sly or cunning intelligence, deceitfulness

We then brainstormed ideas of how to develop the characteristic of "being without guile":


  • Overcome the natural man (easier said than done!)
  • Make a conscious decision to be honest
  • Act immediately when things go wrong-- make amends
  • Have the best intentions you can muster
  • Say what you mean-- be direct (but kind!)
  • Be vulnerable and open
The final method we thought of to be without guile is to think of people you know who truly live without guile and try to emulate them. Sometimes, it helps to think of someone you know when making decisions (ex. think of the Lord of a trusted leader or family member when making decisions-- would they approve of this decision?)


"In a world where praise, position, power, accolades, and authority are sought on every side, I honor those wonderful and blessed souls who are truly good and without guile, those who are motivated by a love of God and their neighbors, those great women and men who are 'more anxious to serve than to have dominion.'" 
--Elder Ringwood