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Sunday, May 19, 2013

Relief Society Meeting 5/19/2013

We started off with a visiting teaching message by sister Kim Syme. She shared an experience about the blessings and power of the structure of RS and visiting teaching. She shared the experience of her mother who had a miscarriage and had to be hospitalized on their moving day. She called her friend and told her what happened. Her friend called the RS president, who called her visiting teachers. The faithful visiting teachers dropped what they were doing and came to the house to be with the kids and unpack and ready the house for Kim's mom so that she could rest and not worry after a trying day and visit to the hospital. The Lord is able to send us choice blessings through our visiting teachers. Remember the words "the errand of angels is given to women" from the hymn "As Sisters in Zion." Visiting teaching is one of the Lord's channels through which he blesses His daughters. How eager we ought to be to bless others in this capacity!

Today for the lesson  it was our treat to hear from the lovely sister Caroline Seaton.

She based her preparations on chapter 11 “I Seek Not Mine Own Will, but the Will of the Father” from the Teachings of the Presidents of the Church: Lorenzo Snow manual.

She reminded us of a few precious truths:


  • The will of the Lord is designed to bless not burden our lives.
  • We may not know today, tomorrow, or even during this life why we are doing something the Lord has inspired us to do. 
  • We may not see immediate results when we do the will of the Lord.
  • Just because something is good, that does not mean it's the will of the Lord. Try to prioritize good, better, best to determine if it's the Lord's will. 
  • The Lord knows what he wants us to be. Life may not turn out how we want it to, but that does not mean things are not going according to plan. The Lord's will is that we become all that we can be. He sees the picture that we can not see, therefore we should trust in His ways.
Caroline shared to inspiring examples of people in her life who have sought to do the Lord's will. Her husband who is preparing for medical school expressed the attitude that if he does poorly on the MCAT and does not get into medical school, then he will know that it is the Lord's will - the Lord knows what He wants him to be. Caroline's mother had always planned to stay at home and not have to work outside of the home, but do to financial struggles, she has had to work from the begging of her marriage all the way up to today. Caroline believes that this unexpected/undesired situation has influenced her mother to be the amazing woman she is today.

Thank you Caroline for the inspiring lesson!!!


Sacrament Meeting 5/19/13

Today Chelsea and Drew Lords spoke in Sacrament meeting. They were followed by brother Gerr of the High Council.

Chelsea told some stories of incredible forgiveness.One of the stories was about how some Amish people forgave the man who murdered or injured 10 of their young girls and helped the man's family with the funeral. She determined, that based on the immediate forgiveness of the Amish towards this man and his family, that forgiveness is an attitude that we carry with us when we remember our Savior's forgiveness which He mercifully extends to us.

Drew reminded us that repentance is change, not just a check list of items we go through. He reminded us that since none of us are perfect, we all have the opportunity to repent (today). If we don't know what to repent of the Lord will show us if we ask Him.

Brother Gerr was kind enough to send us his talk:


The Healing Power of the Atonement
31 Yea, I would that ye would come forth and aharden not your hearts any longer; for behold, now is the time and the bday of your csalvation; and therefore, if ye will repent and dharden not your hearts, immediately shall the great plan of redemption be brought about unto you.
 32 For behold, this alife is the time for men to bprepare to meet God; yea, behold the day of cthis life is the day for men to perform their dlabors. Alma 34:31-32
Teachings of Amulek to the Zoramites

I am grateful that the Lord still has confidence in me to continue serving as a stake High Councilor and be able to serve in the 16th ward.  This wonderful ward.  You have been blessed with a wonderful bishop.   I’m grateful for this opportunity to speak to you this day.  I have prayed that the Holy Ghost will bless me in my deliverance of my message and you to receive and learn from it..

When I was a bishop several years ago a young lady who just moved into my ward came into my office after the block meetings and said “I smoke and I drink and there’s nothing you can do about it”.  Over the course of several months, which turned into years, I counseled and worked with this sister along with many others in our ward.   We all helped this sister begin the journey back on the road to recovery.
In the moment this sister took those steps into my office, she began a journey of repentance, humility and hope.  She took those steps because of the words of Alma 42:30 this had become a reality in her life:
30 O my son… let the justice of God, and his mercy, and his long-suffering have full 
sway in your heart; and let it bring you down to the dust in humility.1
If the Atonement of Christ has “full sway in your heart,” it means that because of your faith in Christ, His eternal doctrines of justice, mercy, and grace will rule your heart and govern your deepest desire and commitments fully and completely.  If the Atonement of Christ has “full sway in your heart,” then you may truly “follow the Son, with full purpose of heart” 2  This is what guides us when we decide we need to repent, change, pressure of life upon us, or we need to knock on the bishops door and talk.
Brothers and sisters, think about your own life.  Think about the paths you have walked.  Have you felt the power of the Atonement in your life?  Does the doctrines of justice, mercy, and grace rule your heart?  Do you follow the Savior with full purpose of heart?  I pray the Holy Ghost will teach you what you need to do now to follow the Lord Jesus Christ with full purpose of heart.

THE ATONEMENT
I want to begin with the Atonement itself.  I’d like to follow the Savior during those fateful hours when He suffered and died for us and rose again.
We go first to the garden, then to the cross, and finally to the tomb.  These three places are holy places, of experience, truth, and glory.  Connected, they define a path each of us must walk if we are to follow Him.

The Garden
Beginning in Matthew 26:36 this tells about the events in the garden
Following the Last Supper, Jesus went with the eleven apostles to a garden on the Mount of Olives called Gethsemane.  Leaving the other eight at the entrance, He took Peter , James, and John a little further and then left them as well.  In those first moments in the garden, He began to feel the great weight of burden He was called to bear.  He “began to be sorrowful and very heavy”as the sins of His people and their pains, sicknesses, and infirmities pressed on Him.5
As the sorrow and suffering, the grief and affliction of all human experience, and the terrible punishment for our sins bore down upon Him, He fell on His face and prayed:
Father, if thou be willing, remove this cup from me: nevertheless not my will, but thine, be done.6 
The pain and agony was so intense it caused the Son of God, “the greatest of all, to tremble because of pain---and would that I might not drink the bitter cup, and shrink.” 7  But He did not shrink.  Three times He prayed the same prayer, and three times He took the same action----He submitted His will to the will of the Father; He suffered and endured.
As the agony grew even more intense, and angel of the Lord appeared to comfort Him; but the incredible pain of “body and spirit” did not diminish.  “His anguish for the wickedness and the abominations of His people”8 pressed down on Him so powerfully that He bled at every pore.9   The precious blood of the Lord Jesus Christ spilled out in great drops like the oil of olives crushed in an olive press.10

The Cross
In the house of the high priest and in the palace of Pilate, the Roman governor, Jesus was tried on false charges and condemned to death as the only perfectly innocent man.  The people who attended these judgments scorned Him, mocked Him, spit upon Him, struck Him, and scourged Him with cruel lashes.11  In the words of Isaiah, “He is despised and rejected of men….He was oppressed, and he was afflicted, yet he opened not his mouth.”12
Condemned to die by crucifixion, Jesus was rejected by His own, cast out, and led by Roman soldiers to Calvary “as a lamb to the slaughter.”13  There they drove nails through His hands and feet and lifted Him up on the cross.
All morning long Jesus endured the pain of the cross, but the end was not yet.  About noon, the sky became very dark.  In those moments the agony and torment of the garden returned in full force.  This time the Father withdrew His Spirit.  In utter anguish of soul, Jesus cried out with a loud voice, “My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me?”14 But He did not shrink.  He held on, until, at last, the suffering was complete.
Again He cried with a loud voice, “Father, it is finished, thy will is done.”15   “Into thy hands I commend my spirit.”16   And then He died.


The Tomb
The terrible hours on Calvary came to an end, but the work of the Atonement continued.  As we follow the Savior, our focus shifts to the tomb where His body lay and to the spirit prison where He went to minister.
With permission from Pilate, Joseph of Arimathaea, a disciple of Jesus, took His body from the cross, “wrapped it in a clean linen cloth, and laid it in his own new tomb.”17   Christ’s body lay in a tomb “hewn out [of] rock”18   protected by a large, sealed stone and guarded by Roman soldiers.19
In His spirit body, however, He continued His ministry.  He appeared in the Spirit World in power and glory20   to the captives who had been faithful.”22   He organized and sent “his forces”23  to the unrighteous and then returned to the tomb to complete His redemptive work.
Having died a physical death and having suffered and conquered everything else mortal life contains, Jesus “received all power, both in heaven and on earth,  and the glory of the Father was with Him.”24  With that power, the Lord Jesus Christ returned to the tomb and broke the bands of death.  Jesus took up again His physical body, quickened by celestial glory.  He became “the first fruits of them that slept,”25  full of glory and power to redeem, to save, to justify, and to bring to pass the immortality and eternal life of man.
Over the next 40 days the resurrected Lord met with His disciples and taught them “things pertaining to the Kingdom of God.”26   Then He ascended into Heaven, there to take His rightful place on the right hand of God the Father.  The infinite, perfect Atonement was complete.

FOLLOWING THE SAVIOR
The Garden of Gethsemane, the cross on Calvary, and the tomb of Arimathaea----three places and experiences that define the most important thing that has ever happened or will ever happen---the Atonement of the Lord Jesus Christ.  The atoning sacrifice and the glorious resurrection took place over the course of several hours in the meridian of time.  If we could gain the perspective of the eternities, we would see in those hours a great light bursting into the darkness of evil, sin, suffering, chaos, and death---a great light spreading across all time and space, filling the universe, carrying all that is good, penetrating every soul---the light of Christ!  Can we ever forget  Brother Young’s testimony?   “God is Good!”
That glorious light and the blessing of immortality come as free gifts from the Atonement of Christ.  He “descended below all things---that he might be in all and through all things”27  “the light and the life of the world; yea, alight that is endless,   that can never be darkened;  yea, and also a life which is endless, that there can be no more death.”28 

But there is so much more! Christ suffered the punishment of eternal justice for our sins and brought to pass the great plan of mercy for all who repent.
Alma said:----mercy claimeth the penitent, and mercy cometh because of the atonement….
For behold, justice exerciseth all His demands, and also mercy claimeth all which is her own; and thus, none but the truly penitent are saved.29
My brothers and sisters, all who repent and come unto Christ have access to His saving mercy.  Jesus is the Savior, the redeemer.  As often as we repent, He forgives us.30   His blood “cleanseth us from all sin.”31 
Through His grace and His power we may be “in Christ…a new creature”.32
Again Alma taught:  Marvel not that all mankind…must be born again; yea, born of God, changed from their carnal and fallen state, to a  state of righteousness, being redeemed of God, becoming His sons and daughters.
And thus they become new creatures…33,34 
This is the power and majesty of the Atonement of Christ.  In every way, now and forever, Jesus has all power to heal, to save, to cleanse, to lift up, to transform.  He is, in very fact, “the way, the truth, and the life.35 
How do we make the atonement complete in our lives?  How do we follow the Savior into the Garden of Gethsemane? On the Cross and to come forth from the tomb.
The Savior made a covenant with His Father.  Deep in the drama of the Garden of Gethsemane and the agony of Calvary lies a covenant, a promise that Jesus made to His Father.  In the great Council in Heaven, God the Father asked, “Whom shall I send?  Whom shall I send to be the Savior to atone for the sins of the world, to overcome all things and to bring to pass the great plan of happiness?  Jesus answered, “Here am I, send me.”  Father thy will be done and the glory be thine forever.

Throughout the Saviors life and ministry this promise guided Him, inspired Him in everything he did.  He taught His disciples, and any who would listen, “I seek not mine own will, but the will of the Father,” and he did exactly that to the very end of His life. 
Because Jesus was true and faithful to His covenant with the Father, there is order, truth, and justice in God’s universe,  no unhallowed hand can stop the work of salvation, and no force or power can take away what God has guaranteed.  The promises are true. Though Satan may promote disorder and chaos and try to wreak destruction, justice and truth will prevail.

The covenant Jesus made with the Father is a pattern for us if we will follow Him.  Think of the covenants we  made at baptism?  In the temple?  Do we strive to honor, live and keep these covenants we have made?  Are we preparing our selves each week as we come to church and partake of the sacrament to repent of our sins and renew our covenants we made at baptism.  Are we focusing on our reverence by arriving early to church, and preparing ourselves for the sacrament? 

Elder Robert C. Oaks said: “Carefully consider the words of the sacrament prayers(when we say amen to the prayers, we are committing to comply with the elements in the prayers—willing to take upon ourselves the name of Christ, always remembering Him and keeping His commandments)”

Recognize your weaknesses and come prepared through repentance to partake of the sacrament

Sing the sacrament hymn and think about the meaning of the words.
Review the meaning of the sacrament prayers in your mind
Think of Christ’s great love for you and of your love for Him.
Think of blessings for which you are grateful,  for the good you did in serving,  and following the prompting of the Holy spirit.
Review your activities of the past week to determine if you have kept your sacramental covenants

Ask for the Lord’s help and commit to overcome a weakness during the coming week.
When Lehi partook of the fruit,  his soul “was filled with exceedingly great joy.  Let this be the joy we experience when we partake of the Sacrament

The Second Pattern: Christ Pure Love
The Savior endured the agony of the garden and the cross because of the promise He made to His Father and because of His pure and perfect love for us.  The depth of that love is awesome to behold.  The Savior endured unfathomable pain, suffering, and agony.  Here was all the awful punishment that justice required for the sins of each and every one of His people.  Here was the blade of justice fully unsheathed—bare, sharp, terrible.  Here was the sum total of all human experience.  Remember, He descended below all things.

But here, too, was mercy in all its compassion and the power of the Holy One in all His strength, Indeed, through the depths of His suffering, Jesus became the mighty in mercy—mighty to forgive, to heal, to redeem, and to justify.  If we turn to Him and repent and call on Him for help, we have access to His mercy, His grace, and His power.
Again here is the pattern for each of us if we are to follow Him.  The Savior calls on us to come unto Him, take His yoke upon us, and learn of Him.  When we take upon ourselves the Savior’s yoke , we join with Him and learn to do His work the way He would do it.

 Think about our service in the ward, among our neighbors, our friends and our families.  Are you prepared to sacrifice and serve with love?  Fulfill your duties in Home and visiting teachings,  doing missionary work, sharing your testimony,  serving in the temple and doing temple work for those who have accepted the gospel.
It is my prayer that His love and His mercy will have “full sway” in your heart so you might love one another and serve one another all the days of your lives.

Walking in the Newness of Life:
Temples are where many  sacred ordinances occur and are also a source of peaceful refuge from the world.  Even those who visit temple grounds can feel this peace.
I would like you to read the talk given by Elder Quentin L. Cook of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles.  Personal Peace: The Reward of Righteousness April 2013 Conference.

The Savior is the source of true peace. Even with the trials of life, because of the Savior’s Atonement and His grace, righteous living will be rewarded with personal peace. In the intimate setting of the Passover chamber, the Savior promised His Apostles that they would be blessed with the “Comforter, which is the Holy Ghost” and then uttered these important words: “Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you.”30 Then just before His Intercessory Prayer: “These things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world.”31

Sunday, May 5, 2013

Sacrament meeting and Sunday School Lesson Recap


Hello Sisters! Church was so wonderful today and here is a little review or update on what happened in our first two meetings.

In sacrament meeting, it was fast and testimony meeting and the room was full of the Spirit. One of the sisters got up and talked about hope. She said something like, "This church is not an exclusive club for knowers, but a support group for hopers." I loved it. 

Then in Sunday school we talked about the Sabbath Day. It was a great lesson. It was lesson 16 in the Doctrine and Covenants manual. The title was taken from a scripture: "Thou shalt offer up thy sacraments upon my holy day." 

We first talked about how the temple can be related to the Sabbath day in many ways:
1. Both are dedicated to the Lord for specific purposes
2. Both require some sort of sacrifice, but we are always rewarded with blessings (armed with power, filled with the HG to face the week etc.)
3. Both can be refuges from the world, work, stress and the daily grind. 
4. It is our effort and mindset that makes them special. We must work at it. 

"Every sacrament meeting should be a time of feasting and spiritual refreshment." -Pres. Hinckley

We discussed: Why do we need to come to church to worship? 

1. There is a special power in counseling in the church/combined and shared thought that leads to revelation and inspiration. 
2. We come to worship God through the sacrament, hymns, etc. 
3. To be able to "speak one with another concerning the welfare of [our] souls." 
4. To "unplug" from the world. (We must be fully engaged.) Pres Kimball says:
“We do not go to Sabbath meetings to be entertained or even solely to be instructed. We go to worship the Lord. It is an individual responsibility, and regardless of what is said from the pulpit, if one wishes to worship the Lord in spirit and truth, he may do so by attending his meetings, partaking of the sacrament, and contemplating the beauties of the gospel. If the service is a failure to you, you have failed. No one can worship for you”
We then asked “How can we improve our reverence for the Sabbath?
1. Come on time, and early if possible in order to be “spiritually warmed-up.” =)
2. Prepare your mindset and prepare for all physical things on Saturday.
3. Remember that the chapel is a sacred place. Treat it as such.
How can we make the sacrament more meaningful?
1. Think of our specific covenants and commitments we have made, review the week and repent and commit to do better.
2. Think of the sacrament hymns lyrics.
3. See the sacrament administrators as stand-ins for the Savior, himself.

Unity in our Relief Society Sisterhood

Today in Relief Society we discussed unity and how we need to treat each other like sisters, which would first mean we need to get to know each other. 

We took an anonymous survey with the 40 present sisters at the meeting. The results were that

8 have been in the ward over a year
22 have been in the ward less than a year
7 have been in the ward less than 6 months
16 knew the name of the sisters sitting on both sides of them
8 have 5 friends in the ward
24 feel welcome in the ward every week

There are a plethora of wonderful sisters in our group. Each is special, and we all have at least one thing in common. Only just over half of the sisters present feel welcome in the ward each week. How many other sisters do not come each week because they don't feel welcome?

We brainstormed ways we can build unity in our ward RS:
1. consistent visiting teaching
2. having Relief Society greeters (or be independent RS greeters!)
3. focus groups such as mothers' group (look for a time and date in ward email - not just for mothers!)
4. breaking into groups during lessons
5. getting together for out of church activities
6. talk to sisters sitting next to you/new sisters
7. join ward facebook page

8. invite your VT to go to activities
9. service activities performed with other ward members
10. fulfill your calling diligently and consistently

Sister Kate Livingstone, who gave the lesson, brought a wonderful spirit of charity to the room as she expressed that she felt the distinct impression that each member of the Relief Society truly is her sister.
We have a role to fulfill in helping our sisters around us. We felt inspired to do a little more to serve our fellow ward sisters and to form true friendships with those in the ward. 

The featured hymn of the lesson was "As Sisters in Zion."

Lyrics of As Sisters in Zion:



As sisters in Zion, we'll all work together;


The blessings of God on our labors we'll seek.


We'll build up his kingdom with earnest endeavor;


We'll comfort the weary and strengthen the weak.



2. The errand of angels is given to women;


And this is a gift that, as sisters, we claim:


To do whatsoever is gentle and human,


To cheer and to bless in humanity's name.



3. How vast is our purpose, how broad is our mission,


If we but fulfill it in spirit and deed.


Oh, naught but the Spirit's divinest tuition


Can give us the wisdom to truly succeed.



 
Spotlight! Jamie Bond was this Sunday's spotlight.

Jamie majored in elementary education and is a teacher.

She met her husband when she and a friend invited his apartment over to play games. They started a strong friendship, which blossomed into a romantic relationship.

A long term wish/goal Jamie has is to improve her Spanish and volunteer in a Spanish speaking country with her husband.

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